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Is He Too Young For A Job?

Sandor is 14 and this weekend he started his first job. He’s a busboy at a local pizza joint. Saturday and Sunday’s during the day. That’s what we agreed on.

As soon as he found out he had the job, Sandor started calling his buddies to tell them what was up.  He was so proud and excited, and so was I.

My first job was closer to home.  I ran blue prints for my dad’s architectural office on the weekends.  The blue print machine ran on ammonia and the smell was so terrible nobody could work while the blue print machine was being used.  I made  ten cents a sheet.  On a busy day I could make eight or ten dollars. Big money.

But Sandor has a real job, with strangers. He has stuff he wants to buy now, things for his dirt bike, a double base for his drum kit. Expensive stuff.  So I told him to get a job.

Folks have had all kinds of different reactions to this news. I didn’t think it would be such a big deal but I was wrong.  Several people said he’s too young, that he should be enjoying himself and have fun while he’s a kid. I agree.

The most surprising response came from his dad, Alex.  He’s generally the “hard ass” in the family. He started working five nights a week when he was fifteen and never looked back.  His first fear was Sandor would follow in his foot steps and go into the food service world.  Trust me, there’s no chance of that. Sandor knows his dad worked 70 hours a week and it nearly killed him.

Alex was one of those who said he should “enjoy his childhood.”

On his first day, he dressed carefully. Collared shirt, lots of deodorant, hair perfect.

My feeling….. he’s fourteen.  He’s not a child. Not an adult, but somewhere in between, so he needs to step up his manly duties.

Most men over fifty have heard that he’s “working” and have been really pleased, even strangers. They shook his hand, gave him the thumbs up and slapped him on the back. They seemed to be relieved that a boy in his generation wants to work, manually.  Sandor’s friends are seriously  jealous. Apparently, they wish they could work too but their parents won’t let them.

So parents, why aren’t we letting our young adults work eight hours a week, on the weekend when it doesn’t interfere with school?  Some of our kids want to work, and that should make us proud. Why don’t we let them except some responsibility?

Are we trying to baby them or are we just too lazy to drive them back and forth?

After his first six hour shift busing tables Sandor was absolutely wiped out. His legs and feet were spent. He was exhausted but soooooo happy. When I picked him up he went on and on about buckets of ice, silverware and dirty dishes.  He told me about waitresses who told him he did a good job and Hispanic ladies who bossed him around. Lord he was proud of himself and that’s a wonderful thing. He was proud of what he did, without me. And about the money he earned.

Of course child labor laws are a good thing. But maybe it’s time we stop coddling our kids.  I think we’ve gone overboard. Sandor will go to college, he will be educated.  But a job seems to give him a sense of pride and purpose, one that hanging out with his buddies, playing video games and jumping on the trampoline, doesn’t. He’s proud of himself.

Sandor is soaking in a hot tub now, hoping it will help his legs and feet. But this weekend he made $72 dollars and he’s got big plans!

 

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4 Responses to “Is He Too Young For A Job?”

  1. February 20th, 2017 at 5:48 pm

    Mary Hampo says:

    I absolutely love this! He’s one of our Hampoland superstars

  2. February 20th, 2017 at 7:33 pm

    Rose Gladner says:

    I started working for Simmons Bank at 14 yrs of ageon Friday afternoons. I handed out ice cold soft drinks to hot customers on a warm summer afternoons. I worked from 3:30 to 6:30 and rode my bike to the bank. I made $10 an hour and it went right into my savings account. Nothing makes you feel better than making your own money.
    Well done, Mom!

  3. March 1st, 2017 at 3:00 am

    Esha says:

    I remember when my little cousin got his first job at 14 at a pizza joint last summer2016.. He had the same exact reaction as Sandor did.. He was excited the first day but his poor feet were killing him. He started during the summer so he pretty much worked 8 hour shifts and working through the week. I dont think his job follow labor law. He is just excited to be making his own money. I think its a great idea to let kids earn their own money. My little cousin loves the fact that he can go to mall every weekend and buy things he want. He doesnt have to wait on his mother to buy him things he wants and feel is to expensive for her to buy. He is still working, he just hate they make him work on game days. I think the way this generation set up, at 14 they should work.. It teaches them responsibility. It teaches them you have to work in order to get what you want. I dont think working on weekends for a few hours a day will effect him.

  4. March 6th, 2017 at 3:30 am

    diana hampo says:

    exactly. Thank you for understanding.